Hallie
Starbound Butterfly
Life's Oxymoron
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Post by Hallie on Nov 4, 2005 14:26:24 GMT -5
"When one door closes, another opens." That's what they all say, isn't it? I'm a pretty firm believer in that... I've seen it too many times for it not to be true. I just hope your door opens before your mother finds out. It is sad to know that you and she are still fighting, but its heartening to know that she's starting to feel a bit of guilt, at least that's what I heard when I read what you posted of her message. Of course, she'd never admit to it, but guilt is what generally drives people to make messages like that... pride makes them sound callous... but at least you know she cares.
I don't know what advice I could give at this point except just keep your chin up and we're here for you when you need to talk. I have a feeling that something will break... perhaps you could try and get ahold of the landlord yourself? Perhaps ask her to allow you to plead your case with him personally so that you would have a chance on the apartment? I know if it were me, I'd have a panic attack just thinking about that, but it would really be worth it in the end... Don't you think? Don't just roll over because she tossed you on your rear. Get up, dust off yer britches and pound on her door again, so to speak.
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Post by PandieCandii on Nov 4, 2005 15:55:51 GMT -5
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Pixie
Starbound Butterfly
faith and trust and pixie dust
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Post by Pixie on Nov 4, 2005 16:03:27 GMT -5
just remember that the one that fell through that you thought was so perfect is not the right one otherwise you would have gotten it honey-the right place is still waiting for you*hugs* love you
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Post by Gibby on Nov 4, 2005 19:36:53 GMT -5
I agree with Pixie. I have a favorite quote that applies.
"Everything will be okay in the end.
If it's not okay, it's not the end." Unknown.
~big hugs~
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Post by PandieCandii on Nov 4, 2005 21:24:26 GMT -5
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Post by PandieCandii on Nov 5, 2005 10:00:07 GMT -5
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Pixie
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Post by Pixie on Nov 5, 2005 11:05:00 GMT -5
if we were no longer interested honey what type of friends would we be?*hugs you*
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Hallie
Starbound Butterfly
Life's Oxymoron
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Post by Hallie on Nov 5, 2005 19:45:11 GMT -5
Yeah... it sounds like that one for $450 would be just like moving back home. Cheap or not, you're smart to work out the details and particulars before going out and possibly wasting your time looking at something you may hate.
Thanks for keeping us worrywarts updated with everything. I do worry about you.. then again I worry about everyone. Its amazing that I don't have gray hair yet. *Giggles*
YES! Give that bum the old what for! He shouldn't have deserted you like that when you needed him. That was just uncalled for. Wring him for every penny of that $90! If you need, gimme a call and I'll come hold him down for you... err... if I had a way up there. *Laughs*
Well hunnie, I hope everything goes well with your visit with your parents. I do pray they are civil and understanding... Its hard for parents to deal with head-strong kids who know how to think for themselves... But at least it sounds like the ice is wearing thin... hopefully by the time you're ready to pack up and leave, they'll be better. *Hugs* I'm hopin' for ya.
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Post by PandieCandii on Nov 7, 2005 0:55:35 GMT -5
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Pixie
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Post by Pixie on Nov 7, 2005 2:40:48 GMT -5
love you honey*hugs tightly*
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Post by Serena Serenity on Nov 8, 2005 2:05:24 GMT -5
Yes, I know I'm late. Don't rub it in damn it. lol Anyhow, good for you hun. My parents want me to move, so there are no worries here. lol Man, I feel loved. *schniffles, then laughs* Anyhow, I have a very good feeling about this. I also have a feeling that it's coming from you cause I'm not psychic. lol It's contagious! lol Sorry, I'm making myself sound horrible. *snugs* Good luck hun. I'm in the stnads cheering for you......... in Nevada. lol
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Post by PandieCandii on Nov 8, 2005 15:26:15 GMT -5
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Pixie
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Post by Pixie on Nov 8, 2005 15:50:35 GMT -5
yay!*showers you with lots of pixie hugs and kisses and lovins*
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Post by Gibby on Nov 8, 2005 18:27:09 GMT -5
YAY!!! ~Big huggles~ Congratulations!! It sounds perfect.
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Post by PandieCandii on Nov 8, 2005 21:11:17 GMT -5
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Pixie
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Post by Pixie on Nov 8, 2005 21:53:20 GMT -5
we are proud of you and love you honey*hugs tightly*
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Post by Serena Serenity on Nov 8, 2005 23:31:52 GMT -5
*nods* Yes hun, we are all very proud of you. I'm sorry to hear what's going on. I am. I know what that feels like. Then again, I was always the black sheep of my family till recently. So I know what it feels like. *snugs* We are all here rooting for you hun. You can do, with or without them. Either way, it will all work out in the end.
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Post by Serena Serenity on Nov 8, 2005 23:50:48 GMT -5
*gives her lots of new feathers as her's fall out all the time* I don't need these. *smiles* I wish there was more I could say. *snugs* Good luck baby girl.
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Pixie
Starbound Butterfly
faith and trust and pixie dust
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Post by Pixie on Nov 9, 2005 0:05:25 GMT -5
*looks around and sighs*sadly I have no feathers......and my mother pushed me out of the family for a period that lasted about 8 years-which had led me to have to go to the emergency psychiatric ward as an outpatient every time I had tried to have contact with them-do not let her hurt you honey-it took a long time but my mother and I have made some sort of peace and perhaps in time you and your family will as well-but I am here for what it is worth
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