Post by Hallie on Nov 14, 2005 17:39:35 GMT -5
I wish God or who ever is responsible for life would make up his or her fucking mind. Its not fair to give us children and then just take them away without letting us say goodbye. Its not right and not fair.
My situation is different than the one I am talking about because at least my baby is still alive. One of my cousins has (had) two children, a boy and a girl. Well, yesterday, she laid the two down for a nap and took a nap herself. When she woke, she went to go wake the babies, and found the little girl stone dead. She tried to give mouth to mouth, and tried all she could, but the experts say that she had been dead a few hours before she was found.
Now, as if that wasn't bad enough for her, they wouldn't let her hold her baby to say goodbye, nor would they let her see her. She is under investigation because the baby died in the crib in her home, rather than in public or some-such. ALSO, they won't allow her to be alone with her son. She has to be supervised until the autopsy results come back. The results may not come back until Friday or Monday. The poor lass is only 19 and can't ever see her little girl again, and cannot be alone with her son, or touch him without someone who doesn't even know her looking at her strange and wondering if she'll do something to hurt him.
Its just not fair. I feel so sorry for her that it makes my heart ache. Why does this have to happen to such good people? Why, when she just learned to love her children, did one have to be taken away without even some sort of notice...? Such tragedies make my situation look so much better, and I just pray that my son stays healthy and vibrant until the day that I will get him back... but at least I -will- get my son back... Her daughter was only 6 months old when she passed...
My situation is different than the one I am talking about because at least my baby is still alive. One of my cousins has (had) two children, a boy and a girl. Well, yesterday, she laid the two down for a nap and took a nap herself. When she woke, she went to go wake the babies, and found the little girl stone dead. She tried to give mouth to mouth, and tried all she could, but the experts say that she had been dead a few hours before she was found.
Now, as if that wasn't bad enough for her, they wouldn't let her hold her baby to say goodbye, nor would they let her see her. She is under investigation because the baby died in the crib in her home, rather than in public or some-such. ALSO, they won't allow her to be alone with her son. She has to be supervised until the autopsy results come back. The results may not come back until Friday or Monday. The poor lass is only 19 and can't ever see her little girl again, and cannot be alone with her son, or touch him without someone who doesn't even know her looking at her strange and wondering if she'll do something to hurt him.
Its just not fair. I feel so sorry for her that it makes my heart ache. Why does this have to happen to such good people? Why, when she just learned to love her children, did one have to be taken away without even some sort of notice...? Such tragedies make my situation look so much better, and I just pray that my son stays healthy and vibrant until the day that I will get him back... but at least I -will- get my son back... Her daughter was only 6 months old when she passed...
