Post by Hallie on Nov 14, 2005 14:41:02 GMT -5
First of all... I would like to tell you that a beer and two sips of a Smirnoff ice is -NOT- a good substitute for a meal. I do intend on feeding you on a regular basis if you don't start eating. *Nudge nudge* I'm the only one close enough to hogtie you and force feed you until you're healthy... I'm sure Serena and Pixie would help me with that endeavor.
Secondly, I know that your situation has been rough. Telling a little girl anything negative is twice as heart wrenching because not only do they have the pout and the thick eyelashes that glitter with tears, but they also have the ability to say "But why, Daddy?" in the most brokenhearted voice one could ever imagine. I do feel your pain, though you might think I'm just saying that. I know you're hurting, but I know you have the ability to be strong. Your little girl needs you and she needs you to do what's right for her. (Which means actually cooking, rather than getting fast food every night. *Poke poke*)
I am really proud of you for getting out of that situation with your wife. That took a lot of willpower that, quite frankly, I wasn't certain you could muster. I was afraid for you, and now you've proven to me that you can and will overcome almost anything thrown in your way if given enough time. Now, we just need to work on your reaction times and get them back up to par. *Blows whistle and cracks whip* And I'm always here to help...
My apologies for being a smartass throughout this post, Dear. I do hope you take it as lightly as I mean it. Its all in order to resurrect that smile that I was finally privileged to see for the first time on Saturday. You looked as if you were free. It made me feel so good... like a weight was lifted from my chest to see you laugh and have a good time. I'm glad I could have included you in that experience, because without you Tia and I would not have had as good a time as we had. I would have ended up babysitting a drunk giggle-box until we both passed out. Bit, the three of us seemed to make the night worthwhile and fun... not to mention hilarious.
I know I am jumping around in reply to your post, but that's just my nature. Soul searching about the home would be a good idea... but I can see it in your eyes that you've already made your decision. Whether you take the offer or not, know that I will always be here if you need someone to talk to or to visit to chase away the loneliness. I know how it feels to be in a place all alone with no one to talk to or see. It can be crippling if you don't have an outlet.
I can see the pros and cons of the move, and it doesn't seem like a bad one in most ways... If your daughter does go to live with your mother, then at least you would be closer to them and would be able to see her more often, aye? Then on the other hand, you would, as you said earlier, have to change med management, counselors, doctors and (on a selfish note) be farther away from me and Tia...
I do have your best interests at heart... though I know what they are about as well as you do. So, no matter what your decisions are regarding your situation, I'll be standing right behind you ready to help in any way I can. Know that I do love you and cherish our friendship and will be waiting patiently to know the outcome of what will inevitably be.
I know you will be fine, Dear... so now I ask another question...
Why do fiddler crabs go to heaven? And is fiddler crab heaven the same heaven that people go to? And...
*Smirks*
Secondly, I know that your situation has been rough. Telling a little girl anything negative is twice as heart wrenching because not only do they have the pout and the thick eyelashes that glitter with tears, but they also have the ability to say "But why, Daddy?" in the most brokenhearted voice one could ever imagine. I do feel your pain, though you might think I'm just saying that. I know you're hurting, but I know you have the ability to be strong. Your little girl needs you and she needs you to do what's right for her. (Which means actually cooking, rather than getting fast food every night. *Poke poke*)
I am really proud of you for getting out of that situation with your wife. That took a lot of willpower that, quite frankly, I wasn't certain you could muster. I was afraid for you, and now you've proven to me that you can and will overcome almost anything thrown in your way if given enough time. Now, we just need to work on your reaction times and get them back up to par. *Blows whistle and cracks whip* And I'm always here to help...
My apologies for being a smartass throughout this post, Dear. I do hope you take it as lightly as I mean it. Its all in order to resurrect that smile that I was finally privileged to see for the first time on Saturday. You looked as if you were free. It made me feel so good... like a weight was lifted from my chest to see you laugh and have a good time. I'm glad I could have included you in that experience, because without you Tia and I would not have had as good a time as we had. I would have ended up babysitting a drunk giggle-box until we both passed out. Bit, the three of us seemed to make the night worthwhile and fun... not to mention hilarious.
I know I am jumping around in reply to your post, but that's just my nature. Soul searching about the home would be a good idea... but I can see it in your eyes that you've already made your decision. Whether you take the offer or not, know that I will always be here if you need someone to talk to or to visit to chase away the loneliness. I know how it feels to be in a place all alone with no one to talk to or see. It can be crippling if you don't have an outlet.
I can see the pros and cons of the move, and it doesn't seem like a bad one in most ways... If your daughter does go to live with your mother, then at least you would be closer to them and would be able to see her more often, aye? Then on the other hand, you would, as you said earlier, have to change med management, counselors, doctors and (on a selfish note) be farther away from me and Tia...
I do have your best interests at heart... though I know what they are about as well as you do. So, no matter what your decisions are regarding your situation, I'll be standing right behind you ready to help in any way I can. Know that I do love you and cherish our friendship and will be waiting patiently to know the outcome of what will inevitably be.
I know you will be fine, Dear... so now I ask another question...
Why do fiddler crabs go to heaven? And is fiddler crab heaven the same heaven that people go to? And...
*Smirks*
