Post by PandieCandii on Nov 22, 2005 22:17:18 GMT -5
Unfortunately one has to be signed in in order to write under this thread, so I've retrieved my old account for this purpose only.
Not sure if everyone had the chance to read the latest before Isaiah removed the tread that I know you've all been checking constantly. So let me get all of you caught up.
Nothing happened.
Seriously, though. People yelled, people argued, people apologized. There's nothing to it anymore. Like I said, the facts only last as long as the rant does.
So why is it suddenly no one wants to write anymore? I know afew of you that are going through alot right now, and about a week ago, ya'll would have filled plenty of threads on this board. So don't let it stop you now.
Maybe no one's writing numerious times a day here anymore because they suddenly don't want to share anymore. They've realized that the people here aren't saints and that they just may judge you afterall.
I can't that isn't true, being have experienced it first hand. But I can say that for a few weeks this place helped alot of people. Don't forget about that. Stop being so worried that someone's going to judge you, and just be yourself.
*smiles gently*
I fear if someone didn't write something soon, this board would soon cease to exist. So we hit a rough couple of days. Some thing's were said. Opinions formed.
I understand that now inlight of everything, most people are going to find it hard to open up again, probably fearing that they'll be judged beyond means. That's perfectly understandable. And I think for some people, it's true. You will be judged, no matter what.
But there's no where in life that you can escape that. Some people are always going to judge you, no matter it be online or off. Now or twenty years down the road. It doesn't mean that you should stop living just because you dont want to be the one at the end of the stick, you know...
This place is a great place. And it's a known fact that there are so many people here that can offer really good advice when you need it. Sometimes you get quicker better answers here then anywhere you may turn. So don't let a bad couple of days ruin that.
I may have no right to ask anyone to trust me, but I do so anyways. Don't stop being who you are. Not in life, and definately not here. You'd be surprised how many people know what's like. And you just may be surprised how quickly all of you will recover from the past couple of days.
So go ahead... start posting every day again. None of ya'll can tell me not one of you'se have had a dream this past week that you can't post in that thread. I know a few people personally whom could use some advice on particular things. And I darn well know that some of ya'll are dyin to see some more of those sheep sketches.. Um.. Advice picture thingys. Ya'll know what Im talking about.
I don't want to see this place go down in the mud. It really can be a good place, and I think each of you could continue to use the encouragement and advice that can be offered here. Forget about if you're feeling unwelcomed, because each of you are. And don't worry about the past. You guy's will be just fine.
Now someone had better start putting this board back together with some posts, else you're all going to begin to feel what it's like to be utterly alone again. And I for one, wouldn't wish that on any of you. We all know what it's like. So stop heading in that direction before it's too late. Do something about it. Don't fall so far below that you can't get back up again.. Trust me on this one.. It hurts worse to return to being alone, then it did to discover you were the first time around.
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Someone is going to hurt you at some point in your life. It's up to you to decide who's worth it and who's not.
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Not sure if everyone had the chance to read the latest before Isaiah removed the tread that I know you've all been checking constantly. So let me get all of you caught up.
Nothing happened.
Seriously, though. People yelled, people argued, people apologized. There's nothing to it anymore. Like I said, the facts only last as long as the rant does.
So why is it suddenly no one wants to write anymore? I know afew of you that are going through alot right now, and about a week ago, ya'll would have filled plenty of threads on this board. So don't let it stop you now.
Maybe no one's writing numerious times a day here anymore because they suddenly don't want to share anymore. They've realized that the people here aren't saints and that they just may judge you afterall.
I can't that isn't true, being have experienced it first hand. But I can say that for a few weeks this place helped alot of people. Don't forget about that. Stop being so worried that someone's going to judge you, and just be yourself.
*smiles gently*
I fear if someone didn't write something soon, this board would soon cease to exist. So we hit a rough couple of days. Some thing's were said. Opinions formed.
I understand that now inlight of everything, most people are going to find it hard to open up again, probably fearing that they'll be judged beyond means. That's perfectly understandable. And I think for some people, it's true. You will be judged, no matter what.
But there's no where in life that you can escape that. Some people are always going to judge you, no matter it be online or off. Now or twenty years down the road. It doesn't mean that you should stop living just because you dont want to be the one at the end of the stick, you know...
This place is a great place. And it's a known fact that there are so many people here that can offer really good advice when you need it. Sometimes you get quicker better answers here then anywhere you may turn. So don't let a bad couple of days ruin that.
I may have no right to ask anyone to trust me, but I do so anyways. Don't stop being who you are. Not in life, and definately not here. You'd be surprised how many people know what's like. And you just may be surprised how quickly all of you will recover from the past couple of days.
So go ahead... start posting every day again. None of ya'll can tell me not one of you'se have had a dream this past week that you can't post in that thread. I know a few people personally whom could use some advice on particular things. And I darn well know that some of ya'll are dyin to see some more of those sheep sketches.. Um.. Advice picture thingys. Ya'll know what Im talking about.
I don't want to see this place go down in the mud. It really can be a good place, and I think each of you could continue to use the encouragement and advice that can be offered here. Forget about if you're feeling unwelcomed, because each of you are. And don't worry about the past. You guy's will be just fine.
Now someone had better start putting this board back together with some posts, else you're all going to begin to feel what it's like to be utterly alone again. And I for one, wouldn't wish that on any of you. We all know what it's like. So stop heading in that direction before it's too late. Do something about it. Don't fall so far below that you can't get back up again.. Trust me on this one.. It hurts worse to return to being alone, then it did to discover you were the first time around.
~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~
Someone is going to hurt you at some point in your life. It's up to you to decide who's worth it and who's not.
~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~